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A Quick Way to Spice Things Up…

By on August 19, 2014
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Remember those heady days when you first met the man of your dreams? Those nights when sleep was the last thing on your mind. When days were spent basking in the after glow of the night before or catching any stolen moments to shed each others clothes and get a bit of skin on skin time! Passions were at their peak, hormones were beating out their own tune and you simply couldn’t get enough of each other.

At the time you couldn’t even imagine things changing but as your relationship endures and either marriage or living together enters the equation, that frantic sex drive does tend slow down to more of a gentle flow. Life has a way of leveling things out and all the normal demands of an average day can reek havoc with most couples love lives. Bring family commitments into play and you now have a problem amplified!

Is it time to spice things up?

What’s important though is what you choose to do about it.  It’s too easy to get complacent and fall into the rut of having mechanical sex or the same kind of sex because it’s quick and easy and bears no thinking about. If you are serious about not loosing ‘that loving feeling’ then it’s important to think a bit outside the square here. There’s nothing wrong with spicing things up a bit and giving your partner a pleasant surprise every once in a while.

It’s hard to be spontaneous when you live together as you often see the most of what each other is doing so gone is that element of surprise.  However with a little forward thinking you could spice things up quite nicely.

Why not text or phone your partner and in your sexiest voice or dialogue book in a ‘play date’. Schedule a time that you are both comfortable with void of other distractions. Try to avoid the late evening when you are both tired and remember whilst the thought of just surprising him might seem good it may be better to involve him in the plan so he’s ready for ‘game on’ if you know what I mean.

Now set the scene – if you are at home slip into some sexy underwear and high heels, light some candles, open the wine. Buy into the game fully and maybe tease things along with some sexy texts leading up the ‘play date’. Move your love making out of the bedroom (if appropriate) as it will heighten the excitement. You may choose to make your ‘play date’ a lunch time quickie or a more extend evening of seduction. Mix it up and don’t be too predictable.  Think back to the sheer thrill you experienced when you first met and see how often you can recreate that excitement.

Couples that play together, stay together so spice things up and enjoy your time together!

For some tips to spice things up check out this program I tried –  The Language of Desire.



About Moyra Matson

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