Being a Porn Star Won't Make Things Permanent.

By on May 26, 2014
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Wow, you've met yourself a real 'hottie'. He's drop dead cute, you hang off his every word and you are already imagining life together for you and your super stud.

We've all met the one that absolutely 'blows our hair back'. He's the one that you mentally undress every time you see him.  You can't wait for your alone time so can treat him to another special trick designed to entice and delight him. He really brings out that hidden inner porn star in you. You are constantly at your favorite lingerie shop updating your collection of bedroom attire and spend more time planning your seduction routine than getting anything else done in your life.  Yes, it's heady, it's thrilling but beware a relationship like this often has a 'use by' date.

Why Porn Star Behavior Doesn't Work

At the moment you feel like you're competing in the sexual Olympics. You spend more time taking each others clothes off and bonking like bunnies and you can never see that changing.  However, no matter how good you are at it, how desirable or even how devious you are, acting like a porn star isn't going to cement your future with this super stud.

In every relationship you need to be able to just be 'you'. If constantly behaving like a porn star is 'you' then this doesn't apply but if that isn't your usual gig then you need to realize that a relationship like this is hard to endure. Having a good, healthy sexual relationship is vitally important and especially so at the beginning of a relationship but it also has to fit in with life.

A good relationship requires you have more in common than just bedroom skills. You need to be there for each other, support each others interests, embrace each others families and above all 'love' each other. It's important too to hold a little back. Pulling out all your porn star tricks in the first two weeks or month of your relationship is going to leave nothing to add at a later date. So, chill out, enjoy the journey of getting to know your new love interest but don't break land speed records to show him what you know or how good you can be in the bedroom (or the lounge, or the kitchen). Sometimes those treats introduced slowly can be so much longer enduring.

However, if you are desperate to learn some secrets that will keep you man intoxicated with you I can recommend a course I've tried called

The Language of Desire. There is something here for everyone no matter how shy or how out going you are.

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