Sometimes It's Just About Sex

By on May 12, 2014
sex

Many times when two people meet, there’s an almost palpable chemistry between them that anyone else in the room can also feel it. This is a sensation that’s almost impossible to ignore. It’s all totally physical at that moment. You look at each other and all you really want to do is start tearing off your clothes. This is a feeling that can hit before you even know each others names.

The chemistry of sex

Lots of times these couples just leap into bed, or the back seat of a car, or the nearest public restroom. They give into the instant gratification of sex and don’t bother to say much more than Hello. This is very often a mistake because they’re not on the fast track to anything other than a lot of “one night stands.” They have nothing in common and they don’t wait long enough to find that out. Instead, they give into those physical urges and soon find themselves in a somewhat empty relationship as the only thing binding them is the sex.

It's all about the sex

If you manage to stay together at least a couple of months, you’ll find that the only time you’re not fighting is when you’re having sex. You may also find that you have sex just to keep from fighting. Having sex may be a way to cure the boredom between the two of you. There’s not a lot more to your connection than the physical one.

You start to wonder how this can happen. Oddly enough, sometimes it really is just about sex. Hormones can wreak all sorts of havoc with your body and an unexplainable attraction is one of the ways that happens. Sometimes it’s all you can do to resist this attraction. So, in many cases, you don’t resist. The only thing is that it doesn’t take away the lust after just one time.

As to whether or not you should walk away from a situation like this, it depends on what sort of person you are. If you’re capable of an unemotional attachment such as this, go for it. You’ll be able to take whatever good things you can from it and then move on. On the other hand, if you’re more of an emotional or sensitive type, you might want to stay away from an attachment such as this. Your emotions will get all tangled up with your physical attraction which means that you’ll keep getting your feelings hurt. Also, you won’t understand why nothing about this relationship is working except for the sex.

Many times, unfortunately, people that are attached to others will experience these sexual connections. This is difficult because if this happens to you, it will start to confuse you about the relationship that you’re already in. The best way to resist the temptation is to understand you may find yourself attracted to others but that doesn’t mean you’re not still in love with your partner.

You just need to learn how to understand what’s happening to you if you do meet someone that sends an inner flame from your toes to the top of your head. Understanding will help you to move on from it without any mistakes made. Learn to admire without desire!

Girls if you are serious about not falling into the 'it's just about the sex' trap then check out Understand Men. Written by a guy to give you a birds eye view into the mind of men.

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